Monday, March 9, 2009

记得和忘记

故事(一)

佛经里有个小故事,说小和尚和老和尚一起去化缘,小和尚毕恭毕敬,什么事都看着师父,走到河边,一个女子要过河,老和尚背起女子过了河,女子道谢后离开了,小和尚心里一直想着,师父怎么可以背那个女子过河呢?但他又不敢问,一直走了20里,他实在憋不住了,就问师父,我们是出家人,你怎么能背那女子过河呢?师父淡淡地说,我把她背过河就放下了,可你却背了她20里还没放下。


故事(二)

印度诗人泰戈尔说过“如果你为失去太阳而哭泣,你也将失去星星。”


故事(三)

阿拉伯著名作家阿里,有一次和吉伯、马沙两位朋友一起旅行。三人行经一处山谷时,马沙失足滑落。幸而吉伯拼命拉他,才将他救起。马沙于是在附近的大石头上刻下了:“某年某月某日,吉伯救了马沙一命。”三人继续走了几天,来到一处河边,吉伯跟马沙为一件小事吵起来,吉伯一气之下打了马沙一耳光。马沙跑到沙滩上写下:“某年某月某日,吉伯打了马沙一耳光。”当他们旅游回来后,阿里好奇地问马沙为什么要把吉伯救他的事刻在石上,将吉伯打他的事写在沙上?马沙回答:“我永远都感激吉伯救我,我会记住的。至于他打我的事,我只随着沙滩上字迹的消失,而忘得一干二净。”


从忘记里学会记得,从记得里学会忘记

从学会怎样忘记,你才会懂得如何去记得你要记得的东西。从个人感觉的角度出发,你才学会什么应该忘记。

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Melaka Trip

There are so long time didnt go out travel with my family, we took a chance from this school holiday, had been organized a 2D 1 N trip to Melaka when i back from Jakarta to Malaysia. Still Remember that day morning, after we took a simple breakfast at cheras maluri, we straight started our car engine and went towards our destination - Melaka. Since it was my first time to Melaka, so we just followed the map that drew by my sister friend. The place we visited:
1. Red Square - Foutain and Clocktower
2. Christ Church
3. sam poh kong temple
4. Jonker street
5. St Paul Church

The delicious foods there:

1. Satay Celup
2. Baba & Nyonya Foods
3. Chicken rice balls
4. Cendol
5. Pineaple biscuit



We all were enjoying the trip since we had been a long time didnt went out together.





Sunday, September 14, 2008

Bih Lin 的婚礼

今天,终于是我们熟悉的aunty 结婚了, 我们一行人两点半从KL 出发到她的家乡- Termeloh. 不到四点钟,我们已到达了目的地,然后我们就跑去他老公的家,看一看他们的新娘房,房子不大,但是看起来还很舒服,这时的aunty 正忙着set 头。。。哈哈,平时的老aunty经过了打扮之后,还算是一个美新娘. 休息到五点半之后,我们就跟着新郎车去到中正华小礼堂。这时的aunty穿着白色的婚纱忙着收红包。我们给了红包之后,很快的找到位子坐下来,我们那桌是最多人坐的,十一个人挤在一起。哈哈,第一道菜终于出场了,应该是叫七星拼盘。。原来一点都不好吃。。在加上那边的风扇不是很凉,令到我们都走出去乘凉,顺便和我们的美新娘拍一拍照。这时的aunty已换上了蓝色的婚纱,我们和她拍了照片之后,就回去继续吃东西。很吃惊的是mengkarak的酒菜里竟然有炸田鸡,最想不到的是甜品是drumstick雪糕。。@@"...哈哈,我们就用这些甜筒和新郎新娘干杯。。哈哈还是头一遭。最后,新郎新娘就在跟每一座桌子干杯的欢呼声下结束了。。。。虽然这次的酒菜不是很好吃,环境又不好,又热。但毕竟是我第一个朋友的结婚典礼,加上新郎新娘还很配, 还算是不枉此趟。。。:P. 后语:在此我要祝aunty 白头偕老,永结同心,人月两团圆(中秋节)!!!

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

First CH cheese cake


Last sunday finally i made my first cheese cake which i had dragged it for long time. First of all, i asked pei yoong which my primariy sifu about the ingredients of making a cheese cake in MSN. After gather all the information, then i went down to Heroes (supermarket) to buy the ingredients. The ingredients was as follows:

INGREDIENTS
1. Cream Cheese x2
2. Sour Cream x1
3. Milky biscuit (cheese cake base) 1 pack
4. Milk 1 small pack
5. Unsalted butter x1
6. Lemon x1
7. Getalin (sponsor by pei yoong)
8. 糖(sponsor by pei yoong)

After buying all the items, i direct go to tower 7 35A to make my cheese cake. Chea be my secondary sifu which teached me on making the base of the cheese cake, using the fruit punch machine to make the milky biscuit became powder. Due to the spoilt of the machine, i just able to made a thin base for my cheese cake. Afterward, i went to cook the unsalted butter became liquid, then apply the butter liquid into the biscuit powder and put it into the fridge. Then its pei yoong turn to teach me make the cheese cake. i took 1 and half of cream cheese and put it in the rice cooker, put 5 tea spoon of 糖, then 搅拌 unti it became smoothness. After that put the sour cream,lemon juice, milk and 搅拌. When it becames smoothness, then i went to cook the getalin with the water. According to pei yoong said, this is used to make the cheese became 固体. Apply the getalin liquid into the cheese. Finally put the cheese on the milky biscuit base. And dont forget to put into fridge. My First CH made cheese cake done.



Chea as the first person(white mouse) to taste my cheese cake, he left comment said that's not sweet enough since the cheese cake taste a bit sour. Jay was the people who eat two piece. HAHA, but he regret to take too much and got nightmare at night. SHIT. Anyway, thanks for chea and pei yoong for the cheese cake learning course. There will be another more nicer cheese cake from me. :)

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

我的朋友结婚了 - Bih Lin

网上版
她是我从小的朋友,她的婚礼我一直参与并陪她一起经历着。  关于她和他,是经典的爱情勇者,至少我这样认为。  大学是同学的他们恋爱了,可她父母和整个家族却反对,原因很简单,他穷。家长是希望她有个舒心的未来,是本能的反对。她很坚持,我佩服她的勇气,赞赏她的决定,祝福她的爱情。当然他很出色,有担当,有责任,值得她为他付出。最后他的诚意和她的固执感动了她父母,不再反对他们的交往。  两天前,她的父母为她准备了一场隆重的婚礼,父爱和母爱是最伟大和无私的,深沉和含蓄的父母怀着满心的担忧默默祝福了自己的女儿,在女儿离开的瞬间,母亲哭了,感人的泪水有难舍的骨肉亲情,更有对自己心心念念疼爱了20多年的宝贝女儿的担心和惦记。没有结过婚的女儿和没有嫁过女儿的母亲是不会体会出大喜日子里眼泪的滋味的。  送走她的下午,我和她的几个亲人去他家探望了她。他的家真的很偏,很穷。她仿佛像公主下嫁到了百姓的家里。她的家人很为她不平,言语多是无奈,左叮右嘱,生怕她会委屈。她满脸笑容,极力展示着自己的幸福和知足,好让家里人放心。他很体贴,真的很体贴,处处照顾着她的体面,在她家人面前表现的很得体,真是个不错的男人。她家人说他很有福气,可我觉得她更有福气,我甚至觉得他们婚后肯定很幸福,肯定!!  我和她说起她母亲的眼泪,一直洋溢着幸福的脸上终于滑下泪滴,我想她可能有对母亲的思念,也可能有对母亲的愧疚,自己的固执换来母亲如此的惦记和不舍,作为女儿该是多么自责!看着他轻轻的安慰她,他一定会给她承诺,承诺给她美好未来,好让她的母亲放心,好让她的付出得到回报!我想:其实不管未来如何,或贫或富,她不会计较,她父母也不会计较,只要他对她好,足以!  真的好感动,我写上面的话,竟然流下了泪水,眼泪模糊了视线,看不清显示屏,可却看清了亲情,爱情!  祝福她们  祝福我们  祝福天下有情人!
Aunty 版
她是我jakarta的朋友,她的婚礼我打算参加。  关于她和他,是经典的爱情勇者,至少我这样认为。  小学是同学的他们恋爱了,可她父母和整个家族却反对,原因很简单,他没学历。家长是希望她有个舒心的未来,是本能的反对。她很坚持,我佩服她的勇气,赞赏她的决定,祝福她的爱情。他是怎样,我不懂。最后他的诚意和她的固执感动了她父母,不再反对他们的交往。  五天前,她的父母为她准备了一场简单的签婚书仪式,父爱和母爱是最伟大和无私的,深沉和含蓄的父母怀着满心的担忧默默祝福了自己的女儿,在女儿离开的瞬间,母亲哭了(Aunty 最懂),感人的泪水有难舍的骨肉亲情,更有对自己心心念念疼爱了20多年的宝贝女儿的担心和惦记。没有结过婚的女儿和没有嫁过女儿的母亲是不会体会出大喜日子里眼泪的滋味的。。她仿佛像公主下嫁到了百姓的家里。她的家人很为她不平,言语多是无奈,左叮右嘱,生怕她会委屈。她满脸笑容,极力展示着自己的幸福和知足,好让家里人放心。他很体贴,真的很体贴,处处照顾着她的体面,在她家人面前表现的很得体,真是个不错的男人(Aunty 最懂)。她家人说他很有福气,可我觉得她更有福气,我甚至觉得他们婚后肯定很幸福,肯定!!(这一行不懂怎样改..haha)我和她说起她母亲的眼泪,一直洋溢着幸福的脸上终于滑下泪滴,我想她可能有对母亲的思念,也可能有对母亲的愧疚,自己的固执换来母亲如此的惦记和不舍,作为女儿该是多么自责看着他轻轻的安慰她,他一定会给她承诺,承诺给她美好未来,好让她的母亲放心,好让她的付出得到回报!我想:其实不管未来如何,或贫或富,她不会计较,她父母也不会计较,只要他对她好,足以!  真的好感动,我写上面的话,竟然笑到趴地,眼睛成了一线,看不清显示屏,可却看清了Aunty的爱情!  祝福她们  祝福我们  祝福天下有情人!

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Green Canyon & Pengandaran Trip



This weekend is holiday again. since there are no any activities for the Bank Bumi project. so my Team Lead(Graven) and Boon had planned to have a trip to Green Canyon, also called pengandaran. We will have a 2 Day 1 night trip at pengandaran. Pengandaran is an islan which located at Java southcoast on the west. This is the beach with massive, crashing waves and delicious seafood. Besides that, it also have a Green canyon and national park in the island. At last friday, after we took our dinner at Little Penang restaurant, then we go buy some necessary things needed in the trip. we go to Metro to buy pillow. without wasting anytime, they have choose their comfort pillow and bought it. After that its time to buy snacks. Within 15 minutes, we had bought around 90K rupiah snacks. quite a lot of snacks bring to the trip. Around 12 am, we all had prepared well and go down to the lobby for our journey to the Pengandaran island. Suddenly my roommate talk to me, choon ho,enjoy you trip!! i feel shock since i unexpect he will talk with me like that, so that's why he got a sourvenier from me.. haha. 7 of us be punctual to gather in lobby.Its time to start our journey by our bandung driver, Preston with his Toyota INOVA.The distance from Taman Anggrek to Pengandaran island needs around 6 hours to reach there.On the way to the destination, we chit chating and some of them are sleeping in the car. luckily we had brought our pillow, so we dont felt headache while sittingin the kijang. When i'm sleeping in the kijang, i could felt my body "drifting".. haha . This is because from Taman Anggrek go to the Pengandran island, need to take the road over moutain. At last, we reached Pengandaran island with 6 hours sitting in kijang. within the 6 hours, we only stopped once to go to toilet and our driver took a break to smoking. Because we reached there so early, so we still cant check in in the hotel that we had booked. so we took our breakfastat the hotel. the breakfast is simple but taste still consider OK. but there are not much choices for the breakfast, there only provided porridge, fried rice,fried mee and some kuih. after taking our breakfast, then we go around the island with our kijang. we saw a shop that provide the package to go to the green canyon, so we stopped there ask for the package, then the others go to sourvenier shop "hunting" their sourvenier. There have a cheap and nice keychain which you could write your name in the keychain.Bih lin bought so much key chain for her family. But unfortunately, the handwritting of the keychain ugly and not nice, really kek died her. we had booked the Green Canyon package at 10 am, so we go back to hotel to see got any room available or not since we only able to book 1 middle-size room through internet.luckily that there still got 1 small room available, so we rented it and put all our bag in the room. We also change to the swimming suit since later Green Canyon there will make wet.







From the Pengandaran island to the Green Canyon need around 1 hour to reach there. On the way to the Green Canyon, we could saw that the wave so strong and massive, this is another beach which affected by Tsunami. According to the local tour guide said, one people had died in the Tsunami.Because of this case, we could saw there was many notice board warning the traveller beware there. After 1 hours, we had reached the destination.When we just stepped out from the kijang, we saw many coconuts there, then we go there for a drink since the "perahu" stil not yet come back. We need to go through the Canyon with the "perahu". so before that then we drink the coconuts first. All of our drink is there, just left chea and pei yoong, suddenly the waiter said "This 2 good coconuts is for this 2 pretty and handsome". When i heard it i almost want laughing.. haha .. "PRETTY"and "HANDSOME".... OWKKKKKK. Finally its our turn to ride the "perahu", we had 7 peoples, so we had divided to 2 "perahu". that's a nice scene i never saw before, cause we ride on the "perahu" and trying to explore to the natural. Although the "perahu" engine sound quite noisy, but this wont reduce our mood to enjoying in this special experience. But when the time getting longer, seems like the scene we saw almost the same ... starting to felt a bit bored.... suddenly we saw there was many "perahu" park at the the end of the river, cause there are no way to let "perahu" to go through the river again. Finally there was another scene to see, else really bored... so fast that we had parked the "perahu" and get off from the "perahu", because the water there was cold, so bih lin and pei yoong dont want go down explore the canyon..so 5 of us (all is guys) then start our journey to explore the Green Canyon.. this journey quite tired and dangerous,since we need to climb over the stone, swimming in the river, we took around 1 hour and half walk until a short destination. we had stopped there and turn back since if we want to continue then consumes more time to complete it...no way want the only 2 gals waitting us there. On the way we back from the short destination, the tour guide persuade us to try jump from the waterfall stone into the river. First we had chosed a not very high stone to jump, but both of us also feel that quite dangerous if we jump from there. This is because we could saw a stone in front may injured us while we jumping from the stone. End up both of us also no jump from there. Then the tour guide bring me to the other more higher stone to jump. This time no excuse for me to jump from there since the river is enough deep. So suddenly dont know where i gain the brave, i follow the tour guide climb up to the stone to jump from upside. The height between river and stone could count as height of double storey house. First time i saw it also feel scary, but i tell myself must go have a try for this since i already climb to upside of the stone. I countdown in my heart ... 3 ..2 ..1 .. then jump from the stone... i can feel myself fly in sky, i can feel that i have 2 seconds the whole body never touch anything. and finally i go into the river. i feel my breast and legs quite pain, and felt me is dizzy, all of this feeling come from the water pressure. luckily i feel better after 1-2 minutes, the tour guide direct tell me that the style i jump not correct, quite dangerous cause i jump without let the leg touch the water first, which are whole body touch the river directly. Phew ... a dangerous action, kids dont learn from me :P. finaly we left the Green Canyon and go back take our lunch at one of the seafood shop in the pengandaran. the udang bakar of the shop quite nice.. yummy yummy. After that we just go walk around the beach side and took photo. Because we take a long journey come to the pengandaran with the Toyota Inova, so everybody also feel tired and we had planned to go back hotel to take a rest. We had decided to view the sunset in the evening. All of us took bath and took a nap in the hotel.



Time pass so fast, already is evening, so we go to the nearer beach to view the sunset. the BDS guy and gals still feel sleepy and tired, so they skip to view this beautiful scene. so only left 4 of us walking on the beach and viewing how the fisherman do their job, i saw they are not easy to earn the money of the current job, since all the fishes they get also selling quite a cheap price, the middle guys only gain a lot of profit there.





After viewed the sunset, we went to the pasar to take our dinner, this dinner is the most nice that i took in this trip, many delicious seafood such as crabs, prawns, 龙虾, sotong, kankung.... really nice for the 龙虾.. .just like what boon said, before taste the 龙虾, must drink some tea to clear your mouth first.. :P .. what's a concept.. haha... When we get out from the restaurant.. we could saw the moon is full and the moon shadow make the sea looks pretty, too bad is never take a photo for this.


We heard that there are a festival here, which are a singing competition. so we decided to go there have a walk. when we just reached there, 4 of us (chea, py, bihlin and me) see the roadside got help people apply tattoo. so 4 of us decided to make the tattoo. we choose the same tattoo as our logo, somemore we have name it as club tangan kanan.. really funny. Because of making the tattoo, we never have chance to go watch the singing competition.




After we had made our tattoo, we want go back to take rest since tomolow still have more activity waitting for us. 4 of us .. sure is tangan kanan club still not feel sleepy, so we went to the nearer souvenier shop to buy some sourvenier, that time really feel funny, cause they had bought many of key chain which can write down the name, but the writing style like normal people writing, not nice at all. when they see the writing name of the key chain here more nicer, really make them feel regret and kek sum .. haha . so i also had bought 2 key chain which 1 for my own keep and the other sure is my roommate. since he stay alone at apartment :P. finally we shop until all the shop want to close soon then only go back hotel to sleep. we plan to wake up watch the sunrise at 6 am again.



we woke up at 5.40 am and went to the nearer beach prepare to see the sunrise, long time i didnt view the sunrise already, so finally i got chance to view the sunrise at pengandaran. again, BDS guy and gals failed to wake up for the sunrise scene, they had missed the chance...:P. after that 5 of us plan to rent the bicycle to go through the pengandaran island, the bicycle quite special, which 2 people in 1 bicycle. so chea and py both for 1 bicycle, bih lin and me for 1 bicycle, and saw yih took a single person bicycle. first time i ride on this bicycle, really feel strange since i hard to control the people sit behind me, when i break that time then bih lin still keep bicycling.. make me hard to take break. when turn left or right that time more funny, turn left or right must stop a while for me to easy control the steering, so that i can turn left or right easily, but she keep bicycling so make me turn left that time seems like drifting .. haha .. luckily both of us also not injured because of this .. and we also start to know how to control the bicycle...The most nice scene is when you riding a couple bicycle under the sun, which the sunshine paste at the two people, really like the drama romantic scene, too bad is we didnt take such photo of scene there and too bad is i go with an aunty :P :P :P




After that we ride on the boat there to go to the white sand beach. the tour guide told us that we can see the 珊瑚there, but seems that day the water quite dirty, so we not able to view it. we just go walk around the white sand beach and take some photo there.




we go eat our breakfast at hotel, and then later we will go to the national park of pengandaran island. before we go to the national park , both 4 of us (club of tangan kanan) had bought our own uniform, quite charming that time since we had wear the same shirt and show our logo to others. finally we reached at the national park there, we followed the tour guide go explorer the national park , and listening the history/ story in the pengandaran. I'm not so understand what he said since he is using indonesia language, but also get fun from there since take a lot of beautiful photo there.




After that , we leave for the national park and boon had gave suggestion that we go to the bandung to view the valcano lake. As i had been saw the photo of valcano lake which taken by boon, i knew there was a nice place to go, so both of us also agree to go there and leave from the pengandaran island. We fast to check out of the hotel and start our journey to bandung.


Unfortunately, we not able to reach the valcano lake because of the traffic jam and we had been too late to decide to go there...so we just plan to take our dinner at The Valley restaurant which can view the bandung night view. quite a nice environment of the restaurant there, and the foods there also quite nice. we viewing the night view by chit chatting there .. really feel quite enjoy in this nice environment.



After the dinner, we went back to the Taman Anggrek. I'm happy with this trip since there was a lot of nice scene in the pengandaran island. Not bad that you organized a trip to the pengandaran island.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Blogging Environment

What is call a good environment for blogging ? i think there may different in the different people. for me, i dont have a special request for the environment. But luckily i get a good environment for blogging at Taman Anggrek@jakarta. Because i had moved to the new unit which live at more higher unit , from 23rd floor to 32 floor, my room also change side, my bed have a big windows there. you can see through the window and there are nice night view from my bed, which are a beautiful jakarta night view.... yesterday night i had tried blogging at this nice enviroment ... i off my room lamp because my roommate had slept . .. but its good that off the lamp , then only can reflect how beautiful of the night view.... i sit on my bed and put my laptop on my leg. using earphone to listening sammy album songs, thinking and typing a blog related to the Pengandaran trip which i travelled last week... when i feel tired or thinking something, i can see to the outside, the jakarta night view makes me feel comfort and relax, all the memories from the trip comes out, really nice for the environment... if this time there are a cup of coffee put at the table for me then will be more nice ... i will continue my Pengandaran trip blog tonight .. with this nice environment......